Monthly Archive:: August 2015

IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT

Dear 1st lady, Today, I want to talk about you finding yourself in a difficult situation.  By that I mean, that someone very close to you has done something that could easily tear the family apart.  Yes, in the...

DATE NIGHTS

I know you are very busy, however you not only need to slow down a bit, you also need to look after your marriage and go on date nights. When was the last time you and your Pastor/Bishop/Evangelist husband...

HEALTH CONFESSIONS

Father I thank you because you are the Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end of all things.  Forgive me Lord, for I have sinned against you and I ask that you have mercy upon me (Ps 51)....

SPIRITUAL COVER

Hello sis, I am sure that you are wondering what I mean by the above title…  Well what I mean is this ‘if someone you knew was doing something unbecoming, for example, a deacon, a minister, a worker, your...

ALIENATION

Sometimes, 1st lady, you suffer alienation from your church members and it seems as if they are closing ranks and making you feel like the outsider, when this should not be happening at all. I want you to know...

KEEP MOVING

It’s been a roller coaster few weeks and months, I know!  Its been hard, stressful, difficult, you thought you could not go on but God…Ps  124 1:1 talks about “If it had not been the Lord who was on...

HE CHANGES TIMES AND SEASONS

Hello you! Today, I want to talk about times and seasons.  The world is constantly evolving and as such, whatever you are going through will shift and the tide will turn, the leaves will change colours, seeds will germinate...

YOU ARE NOT ALONE

It may feel as if you are the only one going through this abuse, it could be neglect, verbal, emotional or even physical.  Yet come Sunday, you are expected to play the role of a 1st lady, the smiling...